{"objectType":"Post","type":"Note","actorId":"@gnomicheresy@kwln.city","actor":{"id":"@gnomicheresy@kwln.city","type":"Person","name":"gnomic heresy","icon":"https://kwln.city/files/file%3A6a61920b63d2050deee22cfe%40kwln.city","url":"https://kwln.city/users/%40gnomicheresy%40kwln.city","inbox":"https://kwln.city/users/%40gnomicheresy%40kwln.city/inbox","outbox":"https://kwln.city/users/%40gnomicheresy%40kwln.city/outbox","server":"@kwln.city"},"body":"<p>I want to start a cult called okayism. As in, it's ok to be where you're at right now. It's ok that you have questions that don't have any answers that anyone can find. It's ok to be sick and tired. It's ok that you're angry that you're sick and tired. </p>\n<p>It would also be ok to try some new things. It is ok to experiment with different modes of being. It is ok to try on a new identity.</p>\n<p>It is also ok to not.</p>\n<p>Note: Central tenet of okayism is that we have to accept (not like) what just is, but we do not have to accept other people's unethical and/or harmful behavior, or systems that are unjust. Because it is ok to change these things.</p>\n","wordCount":126,"charCount":639,"replyCount":7,"reactCount":6,"reactPreview":"👍","reactSummary":"👍❤️","shareCount":0,"attachments":[],"tags":[],"originDomain":"kwln.city","createdAt":"2026-08-09T05:07:38.573Z","updatedAt":"2026-08-20T09:07:42.570Z","id":"post:6a780b1a8bbfc9f7abc215a2@kwln.city","url":"https://kwln.city/posts/post:6a780b1a8bbfc9f7abc215a2@kwln.city","server":"@kwln.city","summary":"<p>I want to start a cult called okayism. As in, it's ok to be where you're at right now. It's ok that you have questions that don't have any answers that anyone can find. It's ok to be sick and tired. It's ok that you're angry that you're sick and tired.</p>\n<p>It would also be ok to try some new things. It is ok to experiment with different modes of being. It is ok to try on a new identity.</p>\n","textPreview":"I want to start a cult called okayism. As in, it's ok to be where you're at right now…","signature":"Z71YKPy5kN4pGevN+X0bZePfNo55A0veO82kpWL9xcp9dFB3YX3VhCSoL2XPY8H6c3mUKef/QINuVJD6TP9ySoOr7x9YMh8+dEyItCtEFS8R5GbiBrsGZmT8CtSubgnCrDdHGLKLyWcJicennGuleQRBYEtfosrcdCRngO0tOdQCnchyiv0rTYvSEsaTReiJ3d9tfaNJkFCIjK/vqxw1zhZAt8Hr33c1O6hbhR1uEzPZLCJdrJ24ErF755giH+wGj3YUvDfCNJctnNPMCm2qXgqd38k50xcHF9kY8bdascWE9geRKGTMTM63ekiwijVaEHw0d5q4IEJ7CIOFZVsYjw==","canReply":false,"canReact":false,"publishedAt":"2026-08-09T05:07:38.573Z","visibility":"Public","featuredImage":null,"myReact":null,"reactCounts":[{"emoji":"👍","count":4},{"emoji":"❤️","count":2}]}